Dear Qur,
ONE chance in life.
don't be silly.
life is too short to worry too much.
--
you are not the most important person in the world, at least not to others.
people don’t actually care for the thing you are worrying about.
Do you judge every single person that you meet?
Probably not.
if you do, you might want to sort out that side of your life, s there's no wonder you care what people think of you.
the best way to test this is to push your limits a little, do something that is a bit out of the ordinary for you and see how people react.
- i've done this by wearning ninja.
chances are that only your "friends" might notice the change and make comments. but a random strager won't really care!!
You only get ONE chance at life and you are going to allow other people’s thoughts make it less enjoyable? Sounds silly now, doesn’t it.
people's feelings change.
people change their minds.
what they judge you on now, might NOT matter in the future.
but what Allah judge you now is the REAL MATTER.
are you going to wait until something is deemed cool and cold? or acceptable to be the person you wanna be?
--
be confident! have faith!
life can be not as you planned but it will be as what it meant to be.
be confident and have faith in the decisions that and actions that you takes.
wear the values those with pride and confidence. stop waiting or thinking other people's approval!
how people view you as individual is not that important as how Allah will view you as His servant and slave.
let alone, if you are the 'future leader', or future troublemaker or whatsoever people seems want to label or call you with any labels that they have, "you are not the most important person in the world, at least not to others".
a mind roller coaster is when the emotions come to interfere, menyibok and menggedik.
note to this,
- be conscious of the emoti0ns inside you i.e fear/ worry/lost
- observe within your mind
- if you observe, it can't be part of you
- watch how the emotion disappear
- as soon as you observe, it will no longer exist.
be conscious and aware, re-analyze using the brain provided, use your brain and little heart whether to keep the strong emotions inside or etting go and get in control.
accept yourself for who you are.
you can't be somebody else.
self-limiting beliefs or society has made you think there is something wrong with you.
it is not easy, yes it is hard, but that is the struggle. begin yourself with the end in mind.
1. write down things you hate about yourself.
2. is it possible to change them?
3. look what could be worse?
4. you are not perfect and we are all living in imperfect world. the only perfect is heaven and hell.
heaven and hell is not here, it is in other world call, heareafter.
if you want to reach and achieve perfection, let's die now. and you will be in the world of perfection.
accepting yourself and the reality is not the easiest thing to do but there always solutions for every problems in the world.
there always answers for every questions that you have.
or else, God won't give you a brain, mind, heart and soul. God won't give you words, books paper and pen.
It might be not as you desire.
Everything is temporary here.
Nothing is everlasting.
if you constantly look towards helping yourself or looking to change yourself, can never accept you as a you.
Everyone needs to change.
Indeed. we need to change.
The word change is so broad. Where no one could define it in a single word. That shows nothing is definite.
Good or evil. It is a mystery.
But the wisdom is there.
From Him to come.
as time goes by and you realize how unimportant the things you thought were actually are.
things will get easier. just keep going.
some people say that what others think about you is a result of what you think about yourself.
if you are confident, there will merits a positive reaction.
if you have low confidence, there will mertis a negative reaction.
will people really care what you think?
what you think is important might not be important to them at all.
what they think is improtant might be no important to you at all.
the rule of thumb, where is Allah in every of your thoughts?
nothing you do is stupid. so stop the depressing mood and torturing yourself.
the things you do can be amazing to someo people but not to some other people. that is life. that is the truth.
can that be amazing to Allah?
Allah looks at the state of your heart.
so let's redefine and revisit what it is in your heart.
since all that matters, is what it is from your heart.
if Allah in your heart,
where is the love?
9 Zulhijjah 1433H.
Abrar Baytuna
12:37AM
ONE chance in life.
don't be silly.
life is too short to worry too much.
--
you are not the most important person in the world, at least not to others.
people don’t actually care for the thing you are worrying about.
Do you judge every single person that you meet?
Probably not.
if you do, you might want to sort out that side of your life, s there's no wonder you care what people think of you.
the best way to test this is to push your limits a little, do something that is a bit out of the ordinary for you and see how people react.
- i've done this by wearning ninja.
chances are that only your "friends" might notice the change and make comments. but a random strager won't really care!!
You only get ONE chance at life and you are going to allow other people’s thoughts make it less enjoyable? Sounds silly now, doesn’t it.
people's feelings change.
people change their minds.
what they judge you on now, might NOT matter in the future.
but what Allah judge you now is the REAL MATTER.
are you going to wait until something is deemed cool and cold? or acceptable to be the person you wanna be?
--
be confident! have faith!
life can be not as you planned but it will be as what it meant to be.
be confident and have faith in the decisions that and actions that you takes.
wear the values those with pride and confidence. stop waiting or thinking other people's approval!
how people view you as individual is not that important as how Allah will view you as His servant and slave.
let alone, if you are the 'future leader', or future troublemaker or whatsoever people seems want to label or call you with any labels that they have, "you are not the most important person in the world, at least not to others".
a mind roller coaster is when the emotions come to interfere, menyibok and menggedik.
note to this,
- be conscious of the emoti0ns inside you i.e fear/ worry/lost
- observe within your mind
- if you observe, it can't be part of you
- watch how the emotion disappear
- as soon as you observe, it will no longer exist.
be conscious and aware, re-analyze using the brain provided, use your brain and little heart whether to keep the strong emotions inside or etting go and get in control.
accept yourself for who you are.
you can't be somebody else.
self-limiting beliefs or society has made you think there is something wrong with you.
it is not easy, yes it is hard, but that is the struggle. begin yourself with the end in mind.
1. write down things you hate about yourself.
2. is it possible to change them?
3. look what could be worse?
4. you are not perfect and we are all living in imperfect world. the only perfect is heaven and hell.
heaven and hell is not here, it is in other world call, heareafter.
if you want to reach and achieve perfection, let's die now. and you will be in the world of perfection.
accepting yourself and the reality is not the easiest thing to do but there always solutions for every problems in the world.
there always answers for every questions that you have.
or else, God won't give you a brain, mind, heart and soul. God won't give you words, books paper and pen.
It might be not as you desire.
Everything is temporary here.
Nothing is everlasting.
if you constantly look towards helping yourself or looking to change yourself, can never accept you as a you.
Everyone needs to change.
Indeed. we need to change.
The word change is so broad. Where no one could define it in a single word. That shows nothing is definite.
Good or evil. It is a mystery.
But the wisdom is there.
From Him to come.
as time goes by and you realize how unimportant the things you thought were actually are.
things will get easier. just keep going.
some people say that what others think about you is a result of what you think about yourself.
if you are confident, there will merits a positive reaction.
if you have low confidence, there will mertis a negative reaction.
will people really care what you think?
what you think is important might not be important to them at all.
what they think is improtant might be no important to you at all.
the rule of thumb, where is Allah in every of your thoughts?
nothing you do is stupid. so stop the depressing mood and torturing yourself.
the things you do can be amazing to someo people but not to some other people. that is life. that is the truth.
can that be amazing to Allah?
Allah looks at the state of your heart.
so let's redefine and revisit what it is in your heart.
since all that matters, is what it is from your heart.
if Allah in your heart,
where is the love?
9 Zulhijjah 1433H.
Abrar Baytuna
12:37AM
